[there's no way that's true. He's seen her grief and suffer -- she may hide it, she may not express it the way most sane people do, but it's there]

.....

Look, you can't--- you can't just shut off your feelings, no matter how much they hurt you. You won't recover like that. You can't really live like that.

You understand that, right? [she must, if she says she can't really live]